It is really love?
We are all looking for love, even the oldest person in the world. We look for a special someone who will turn into a loving spouse. We look for love and trust from our parents. We look for love from our administration, hoping that those who are in the highest position will be compassionate with all of us. But weirdly, we often get into our worst answers and definition of love, when we all do is to search for this word- Love.
A successful marriage in the first maybe split up due to third parties wherein the other one doesn’t see contentment in his/her partner, and he/she still look for love. A typical boy may break his body by joining a fraternity/ sorority because he found love there. There are desperate for love, trying to ruin their mind and ease the pain by taking prohibited drugs.
Have someone already find true love? Have someone really found what is the definition of love? Where? How does it feel to be loved? Is it easy to find love?
As I see couples around, one question that keeps bragging my mind, “Do they really know what love means?”
In a family, is it enough to say “I love you” and give them whatever they want to your child just to prove them that you really love them. In friendship, is it enough that you were together all of time just to show love? For those people who still search for love even they are already married and gave promises with each other, is it really worthy to throw away all of the moments you’ve been together just because you found love to someone else?
Life is full of love, as they say, but how about those who are lonely, who doesn’t have anyone in their lives, does it mean that they won’t be loved by anyone and they won’t experienced to love and to be loved?
Do we really need someone to spend our life with just to be happy? Everyone was looking for it, and longing for it.
For some love is money, fame, success or whatever they want it to be. They just get material things;they just found satisfaction and lust but not love. We give love but we may forget ourselves. How can we grow up if we give love and left nothing for ourselves? How can we think normally, if what’s in our mind is the word love? How can we sleep early and be worry-free if we have something to ponder on and that’s love.
Everyone’s dilemma is looking for love but no one had finally stand and shout that HEY! EVERYBODY it is love; it’s the feeling of being in love, because at the end of the day, there are still people who are in pain, who are crying, who are still in trouble, who are still confused because they still not sure if that love is true and can make them happy. No one still find love, no one will find it in the easiest way.
If we find and search for love, we may lose our mind just thinking about it, we may give up and surrender that love is still uncertain. Love is indescribable, it’s something that is unexplainable yet one you have it, you’ll lose yourself.
Try not to look, search and long for it, just try to close your eyes, open your heart and sleep, and let love filled your love. All of us can go on with love, but try not to capture it, preserve it. Waiting is perseverance, but wait without expectation and with acceptance.
-- Jennica Roz Fronda
Im praying for love, im not waiting for it.
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